August 2006 Update Letter

Date: 2006/08/30 Wed AM 10:20:13
Subject: August Update from Nicole Humphrey

Hello Friends and Family!

I’m begining to feel as though every time I send you an email something major changes in this house. 🙂 I wrote last time and told you that we hired a new staff named Ashley, she has been great, she’s very upfront and straight forward with the girls! She has been here a month already, so she has been learning a lot! We found out that the lead house staff Teri is resigning, her last day is Aug 31, which means as of Sept 1 I am lead house staff. I’m not exactly sure what this changes, because I’ll techincally still be in my probationary period. For the most part it means more responsibility, a higher level of accountability and that I have the most seniority (by a month). Teri actually left on Tuesday Aug 29, it was eaiser that way for all parties involved.

The girls were told last night and some of them cried, but most of them are so self-centered and self-focused that they really expressed no emotion. It was interesting though to watch their reactions. Two of the girls really blessed our hearts by expressing their appreciation to the staff still here.

Also, since writing last we have acquired internet at our house which is a great blessing because Monday Aug 21 I started my first Distance Learning class through Liberty University! It is the first step in the MA in Professional Counseling degree. I’m praying about changing degrees though. I’m looking at the Masters of Arts in Religion with a concentration in Counseling. My two classes that I’m registered for this semester should slide right into that program as electives. The reason I’m contemplating this is I’m not quite sure if I still want my license in counseling. I know that I really want more Bible classes. Because I “rushed” through my undergrad I didn’t really have the opportunity to take electives and therefore I missed out on a lot of great classes.

My class has been going well so far, I’m not feeling overwhelmed. I have a ton of reading to do in my “spare” time, you know between midnight and 6 am, and I’ve met the deadlines on my first two assignments, but we’ll see how it goes, I have two pretty significant sized papers to write. (Please pray!)

On the lighter side… we walked out our door the other day and there was a snake wrapped around the banister… Ashley walked out first and saw it on her way down the steps, she ran as far as she could get away from it, Teri was trying to figure out if she should go out through the back door and I ran to get my camera. It turned out to be a Rat Snake which means it eats rats, so it was a “good snake”, but because Ashley was so scared by it, Papa Roger killed it. Oh well, I got pictures. We also have banana spiders on our back porch, they are HUGE and yellow and black… incredible.

I miss you! I’m learning dependence on God for so many things, I know that I’m up for some hard lessons during this season of my life, I do thank each of you for the role you’ve played in my life. 🙂

July 2006 Update Letter

Sent: Tuesday, July 25, 2006 8:21 PM
Subject: July Update from Nicole Humphrey

Hello Friends and Family!

I have made it to day number….37!!! I can NOT even believe it has been this long! In some ways I feel as though I arrived here yesterday, in others… I feel as though I’ve been here for years! God has been blessing me in some INCREDIBLE ways.

Books: Recently I’ve read Pursuit of Holiness, SO INCREDIBLE… definte kick in the butt!
READ IT!!! Next I’ll read A Full Quiver or 12 Ordinary Men (They are on my staff reading list).

Staff: Last night our new staff Ashley started working, she’ll have a full week this week as we are doing BASIC Youth Conflicts, all day long! So please pray for her. God has been working in my heart in a very powerful way through this conference (we’re watching the videos of the conference). Miss Kallie’s (intern) last day is Aug 5, so I’ll be loosing a co-worker and friend then 😦 pretty sad about that, but I know God is getting someone else ready for us!

Girls:
Two or Three weeks ago (the days are fuzzy) we got a new resident. She has provided many humorous moments, all of the girls try different games to see what our boundaries are as staff and this one wanted to play the “Hypochondria Game,” it turned into a guessing game for the staff, we tried to predict what pain she would come to us with 🙂 Please pray for her to receive Christ as Savior and Lord, she claims a “salvation experience” but her life is talking louder, against her.

I had my first physical altercation yesterday… I’m totally okay, just a small bump on my head from an ironing board… forgot to make sure the environment was safe… I’ve learned my lesson. The girl made a threatening motion physically so she needed restrained. This specific girl has been dealing with a lot of JUNK and spiritual warfare.

One of my co-workers (and friend) and I went to Universal Studios: Islands of Adventure on Thursday, wicked expensive, we definitely learned our lesson about purchasing the tickets ahead of time online, and now that I have a FL drivers license I would definitely make sure I get that discount. So… I got to ride Deulling Dragons (my new favorite coaster) and The HULK… absoulutely awesome! We were in the front for both rides!!!!

Well I need to go home and rest! So I’ll leave you all with that… If you have any questions I’d love to hear from you… I feel like I live, sleep, eat, and breathe teenage girls, so variety and balance would be nice 🙂

Please keep praying for me, I feel like each day is a Spiritual Battle, but I’m confident that the Battle belongs to the Lord and that He has already won!

May 2006 Update Letter

Hello Friends and Family,

I’m in Michigan until June 16!!!

My last week of classes ended smoothly and final exams went well. I was able to graduate Summa Cum Laude (yea I’m bragging 🙂 I’m very excited :))!

My mom and dad came down to Lynchburg to come get me. We had quite the adventure. On Saturday after graduation, my dad and I went to pick up the u-haul, only the original location of the uhaul had changed two months before (unbeknownst to me!). My dad and I ended up going to downtown Lynchburg to pick up the trailer. We had fun. 🙂 Loaded the trailer, had lunch at my friend Angela’s house (we ate those life-altering-ribs I mentioned in a previous email) and hit the road :).

My brother wouldn’t let me share his graduation party (and call it my college graduation party!), but I still had fun visiting with everyone that came to his party :).

I have a few more open houses to go to and two weddings before I move to Florida.

At this point I’m planning on starting distance learning classes at LU this fall. I’ll try one class for the fall semester and see how I feel about it, before I make the decision to take any more classes.

My mom had surgery, it went well, I’m her care giver this week 🙂 Chief cook and bottle washer, as well as maid, but that’s part of being a family member. 🙂

The rest of my time will include: spending time with the siblings, catching up on life, shopping, driving and any other fun activities.

It looks like we will be moving while I’m at home!! Learning how to live on a lake will be a fun new adventure. Hopefully, I’ll get some time on the wave runners before I move :).

Surprise: I’ve been doing a lot of reading these past two weeks. As well as watching movies. I finally read The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe. I LOVED IT!!! I’m ready to start the next one. I’m currently working my way through an autobiography on a Korean Christian who faced persecution by Japanese, The Man in the Iron Mask by Dumas, and the book of Luke in the Bible. I’ve read the two latest by Lori Wick (I was really behind) and Dee Henderson’s latest. I also read an odd biography called Harriet Beecher Stowe Had a Husband, it was stories about 5 Christian couples.

I finally saw the movie Braveheart, except for a few scenes, and the fact that I fast-forwarded through the grotesque violence, I LOVED IT! Bravery, courage, freedom, passion, fighting for a cause, a small romance, a non-happily-ever-after story, WOW!

I’ve also been catching up on TV shows, I haven’t missed much, but I am enjoying the new commercials 🙂

If you are in GR as well, I’d love to get together with you for coffee, dessert, lunch, shopping, brunch, basically any excuse to talk, catch up and visit. Send me an email or give me a call 🙂

April 2006 Update Letter

Well Family and Friends…
This is my last email AS a college senior… my May update will be as a college graduate! Whoop-whoop!
I can hardly believe how time has flown… Guess that’s what happens when you skip a year. Silly me…
This past month has been full and exciting!

I volunteered at a Soup Kitchen in downtown Lynchburg, and it was a neat experience(!), both the people who worked there and those who came to eat were fascinating. I met a girl from Germany named Jessica, she was here with a group of students to study religion and Christianity in America. If you remember her in your prayers I’d appreciate it, she is unsaved and has a lot of head knowledge now about Christianity but seemed to have no desire to know Christ.

April 22 was the Junior/Senior Banquet here at LU. It’s our alternative to a formal dance. It was fun, they did a mock “tonight show” and I looked really pretty because my roomie did my hair, nails and make-up.

On the 13th I went to a Seder which is the Passover feast Jews celebrate. It was beautiful/humbling/inspiring to worship Christ in a different way by partaking in that ceremony.

I celebrated Easter weekend with my friend Angela and her family, I had some life-altering-ribs.

Babysitting: I started babysitting for another family, two boys, they are absolutely adorable. I could kidnap them, except for the fact that I have no way of supporting them, and I couldn’t take them from a healthy home life!

Thesis- IT IS FINISHED!!! 38 pages, Impact of Premarital Preparation Programs. I’m so excited. It’s my “graduating with honors” requirement, so now I get to wear a big medal at graduation.

Classes- I gave two 45 min presentations about Deindividuation (mob mentality, trading individual identity for a social identity). Basically I’m done until exam week, I have an exam each day at sporadic times so that’ll be fun!

I’m looking forward to coming home!!! Seeing family and friends, playing on the lake… by golly if it’s not warm I’m wearing a wet suit!

I’m so excited about this next phase of my life. A little nostalgia has set in about no longer being a kid, but I’ll get over it when reality hits.

I’ve been reading through proverbs and Matthew in my quiet times. I love watching Jesus interact with people and the way he ministered to each person individually. Something that struck me in Mathew last night was the way the crowds wanted physical healing but weren’t in search of a savior for their souls.

I can’t think of anything else to share at this moment… see some of you soon!

March 2006 Update Letter

Hello!

So much has happened since the last time I wrote. I had my busiest weeks of semester ( I hope) I had spring break and I had a job interview… keep reading for more details.

I wrote a really fun paper for my group dynamics class it was a “biblical femininity group for high school girls” I hope I eventually get to lead this group because it was so much fun to write! I talked about lady-like behavior, what it means to be a woman who honors God, fashion, purity, modesty and so much more! I even planned for guest speakers, a panel of mature mothers, fashion shows, a pampering night and many other exciting things all spread out over a 16 week semester format.

For spring break I went with my roommate to Atlanta, GA where she is from… I was well churched that week. We went to her family’s church on Sunday, Burnt Hickory Baptist Church. The college class was amazing (almost made me want to move there just for that ;)) then her pastor was also a great teacher of the word. That night we went back to church for a revival teacher, he spoke Sunday Night and Monday. Then… on Tuesday we went to 7/22 the college ministry of North Pointe Community Church. It was so interesting, we walked in and the chairs were backwards, they started this series called Retro and what happens when you live life living in the past instead of repenting of your mistakes and moving on. We eventually got to turn our chairs around, but it was a neat point to drive home. On Wednesday night we went back to Jen’s church and went to the college Bible study there, the singles pastor talked about being prepared for battle. The other times of the week were great as well. I caught up on a lot of sleep, we explored Atlanta a little bit, we all went to her dad’s base, he works for the navy so he showed us his office and we got to see a little bit of what he does. Of course we didn’t see anything top secret, because if we did… well you know. On Saturday we drove to Commerce, GA and met up with our friend Amanda, to go spend the night at her house, (she was our ride to Jen’s house, and our ride back to school, but she’s our friend first) We spent the night at Amanda’s house in S.C. then went to church with her on Sunday. I forgot to mention that I tried boiled peanuts for the first time…. Apparently they are an acquired taste (I’ll just have to believe them).

The Friday I got back from spring break I went down to Jacksonville, FL for a job interview with Hosanna House, it is a residential home for girls. They offered me the position and I accepted it. (They and I, and several of you have been praying about and for this for several months, and for that I thank you) I will be moving down there the weekend of June 17 (right after Mr. Luke VanWingerden marries Miss Laura Nickels… wow that makes me feel old 😉 *wink*)

I will be a house mother (yes, a mother 😉 weird), and I know God will teach me a lot through all of it for 13-17 year old girls. There are currently 13 girls living there. The house has room for 16, but will house up to 24. The girls are involuntarily placed in this home by their parents. They are unable to live with their parents for various reasons (mental health, poor behavioral choices, aggression, etc.). I will definitely have lots of prayer requests for you all throughout this next season of my life, as I learn a new job, acclimate myself to a new culture and minister to a group of girls I have very little experience with.

Graduation is May 13th and time seems to be flying… I don’t know if I want it to come, I do, because I’m excited about this next season, but I’m not quite ready for this current season of my life to end.

Well, this seems like a short email (but I wanted to get it out before everyone starts hearing my news through the grapevine *wink*)

So please feel free to email me with more questions! (I love getting mail, of any kind)